Saturday, June 20, 2009

VIRGINITY & its perennial bias in the world around me


okay i know that this is a topic which comes under the category called as taboo.
but then why not discuss it out in the open...
i feel god has been the most inglorious and ungenerous when he decided on allocating virginity to both the sexes.

a mans if he loses his virginity is unbothered coz no1 is ever gonna find out ,
but a woman if she loses her virginity, there is a clear indication about it(for those who dont kno...this might be an above 18 post...and if ur above 18 and u still dont kno...god help u)

why this bias by god?!
why did he do this...why this partiality...
didnt he know the ramifications abt this?!
didnt he know that it would make women the weaker sex..
didnt he know how chauvinistic it would make the males around1!?
was he that dumb!?or was there a meaning to it!? i dont think so...

one of my really close friends once said to me...

he said that he would want his wife to be a virgin....but the fact was that he himself was not a virgin....so nw if he had a break up wid his gurlfriend....then!?
even then he would want his WIFE to be a virgin....thats so styupid..
then he asked me....what about me.?then i told him...that if i was a virgin i would expect my wife to be a virgin...if i wasnt...i wouldnb expect the same from her...

and he was bamboozled...and started calling me a moron...


this problem has even affected the religions...whw did mary have to be a virgin...how can mary be a virgin if she gave birth to jesus?

i firmly believe that GOD WOULD NOT BREAK HIS OWN LAQWS IN ORDER TO PROVE HE IS "GOD"....



i dont kno...but i kinda feel that the whole concept is partial and wierd....
god...in this one policy...wantedly or unwantedly made the female gender weaker...and the males superior...

there a variety of thoughts that go in mmy mind regarding this...but i guess it would not be right on my part to jot them down here....coz this issue has to be thought upon...and these thoughts experienced....

please have a thought over this topic....

regards...
confused me...

and today at 11 in the morning is vivek anna's condolence meeting....
pray for his soul(13 days since he left the mortal world along with sanchita's dad...pray for him too...r.i.p.)...
Adsesnse

2 comments:

ajit on June 29, 2009 at 6:17 AM said...

RIP
to the two ppl!

y Would u like to loose ur virginity b4 marriage da?!?Its so stupid! rite!
Enjoy lyf...do everything but not loose things like this...is my point of view!

the confused indian!! on June 30, 2009 at 4:53 AM said...

aj....u aint getting the pont....the concept of virginity has made gurls the weaker sex...read the main part....each and every gurli have asked agrees to this point..

MY blog is NeTwOrKeD!!!;)

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