Friday, September 11, 2009

The Great Indian Middle Class Parent!!!


MOM AND DAD!!! I LOVE YOU....THIS POST IS AIMED AT THOSE PARENTS WHO ARE NOT LIKE YOU...

there are a few things i have analyzed over the past few days...

the indian middle class parents have this funn thing about them...

1.mera beta engineer...mera beta doctor...meri beti ias

else

2. my son indian idol, my daughter airtel super singer...

this is just the icing....


kids have to go to a tuition early in the morning...then go to the school...and then again tuition....and then music class(or sme other crap)..


ALL THIS FOR A 8 yR OLD....

ne mark less than the first mark(of the top 3) marks is a sin...a blot on the family....

no play....u cant go to the ground and play during the evenings..."no play may make u duller than jack...but more 10 minutes studies will be good brains...WHAT THE FUCK!!??"


u know what...the basic problem is that THESE PARENTS want to live their own childhood dreams through their kids...if i couldn become an engineer...then m son will...and should...else i will break his knuckles...

COMMERCE group which happens to be a wonderful group...is looked down and frowned upon...as if it is a course for the lesser mortals....hey jackasses....thats nt the case...

a kid even if he or she is not interested in going for those music classes....should go for it...the kid might be interested in western music..but carnatic music is what he ends up learning....or vice versa....


wh arent the kids being given time to play...

time to think for themselves....
time to analze...

why should ever god damn thing be forced upon them..


i seriously pity some of those kids in airtel super singer....some of them have just been forced into singing a particular song coz the parents wanted them to even though it was beond thier level(as mahathi, one of the judges pointed out)


these kids have no dreams...dream...but don even think about...

read...but not NOVELS....but ur textbook..

it was a couple of weeks back....when a neighbourhood aunty asked me whether she should send her daughter for iit training....i asked her which standard was the kid studying in..

8TH STD...HOLY SHIT...can u believe that....come on ppl...thats the age arnd which ppl start attaining knowledge abt life...its the start of adolescence....and u wanna ruin it by those iit classes!??


this problem is more down SOUTH here in INDIA....am not taking sides here....but i have in north for a long time...and travelled over half of india....so i guess i can safely say what is what and where is it like that....but it is the same in north.though less...



allows the kids to learn

DONT KILL THE CREATIVITY...

let them go out and play...

LET THEM NOT CHOOSE THE SAME OLD LINE OF DOCS...ENGG...


IF THE WANT TO BE DIFFERENT...ALLOW THEM TO BE...

DONT FORCE UR PRINCIPLES ...UR IDEAS UPON THEM....

IF THEY GO WRONG...THE WILL FALL...AND THEY WILL LEARN...
Adsesnse

2 comments:

GAYATHRI on September 11, 2009 at 6:51 AM said...

well kapil!!everyone of us ve crossed this kinda childhood and feel pity for the present day children!!true!!hmmm...parents cant be chngd..jus lik our stupid hod!!:(the only diff is tat idiot talks about tcs wipro infosys while our parents say mbbs engg iit music class etc lol!!

the confused indian!! on September 11, 2009 at 8:21 AM said...

na gayathri...not our parents....its those...attention seeking moronic parents...ttring to force their children...those ppl am talking abt,,,

MY blog is NeTwOrKeD!!!;)

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